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Make Him Prove That He's Worthy Of You

May 18, 2013 13 Comments
Only give your heart away to a man who proves himself worthy of that beautiful love you offer. A man is kissing a beautiful woman hoping he can prove that he is worthy of her love.

We've gotten so used to making this about everything except love that we don't even know how to get back to where we need to be. Somewhere along the way we unfortunately learned to believe that we need to prove something. That we need to show him, or maybe everyone, that we really do have [...]

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He Was Never Really There

April 22, 2013 9 Comments
We forget just how miserable we were far too much of the time. We forget how many of our own needs weren't being met. We forget all the waiting. We forget all the uncertainty. We forget all the times we felt like anything would have been better than what we were living. A beautiful woman is sad thinking about her recently ended relationship.

It's always hard to let go of a dream. The dream of all the potential the relationship showed, the dream of all that could have been. We tend to have such a selective memory when we finally let him go or he lets us go. Either way, it's the same. We remember all the wonderful [...]

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The Worst Thing You Can Do When He Won't Commit

February 16, 2013 11 Comments
You're the one who really has tried everything to get him to come around and fully commit. You're the one who's given him more than enough time to come around and finally make the commitment . A beautiful woman is upset that her boyfriend won't give her the commitment she wants.

You know exactly who you are. You're the one who really has tried everything to get him to come around and fully commit. You're the one who's given him more than enough time to come around and finally make the commitment that would make everything perfect. And now you know all that's left to do [...]

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Be Confident: You Know Who You Really Are

January 26, 2013 4 Comments
That internal voice - it's always there, undermining your confidence, silently eroding your self-esteem, but you know who you really are. A beautiful young woman is thinking about who she really is, and her confidence level.

There's that little voice inside your head that seems to pop up whenever you're at your most vulnerable. Whenever you're already questioning yourself and what you're doing and whether or not you really do deserve the best that love and life have to offer. For many of us, it's subtle and not loud enough to [...]

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That First Step

January 5, 2013 6 Comments
You don't need to settle like this. You do have worth. You don't have to prove your worthiness to receive love. It's not in everyone else except you; it's all there, in you! A beautiful woman is taking that first adventurous step across the water into the unknown.

You know you don't want to settle anymore. You know it's time to start focusing on what you really want, and deserve, and to start making this about you and not about any him. But even as you know all this, even as you know in your head so clearly what you need to do, [...]

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I Can't Make You Love Me

December 31, 2012 4 Comments
Of course you thought you could make someone love you. Haven't we all been there? You, too, believed, in spite of what everyone told you, that you could actually change his heart. A beautiful woman looks out at the snow knowing it's finally over.

You know exactly what I'm talking about here. Because you've been down this path far too many times before. Of course you thought you could make someone love you. Haven't we all been there? You, too, believed, in spite of what everyone told you, that you could actually change his heart. And no matter how [...]

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How Long Do I Wait For Commitment?

December 8, 2012 2 Comments
You've tried everything I've suggested, and now the only thing you're left wondering is how long do you wait to see if he comes around and give you the kind of commitment you're looking for? You're so not alone if this is where you're at. Of all the questions I'm asked, this is one of the most common. A beautiful woman is contemplating how long she should wait for her boyfriend to commit.

You've read my post Why Won't He Commit? 7 Things You Can Do To Move Things Along. You've tried everything I've suggested, and now the only thing you're left wondering is how long do you wait to see if he comes around and gives  you the kind of commitment that you're looking for? You're so not [...]

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You Are That Strong!

December 5, 2012 Leave a Comment
With that same resolve, with that same kind of confidence. You really do have that same kind of confidence, that same kind of right to stand up for yourself and let him know what you will and will not take. A woman is showing her confidence holding out her fist and smiling.

I was waiting at the checkout counter today when a title on one of the CD's caught my eye. It was Taylor Swift's We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together, and I noticed it was advertised as having been a number one single. I hadn't heard the song before, so I downloaded it when I [...]

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You Don't Need to Be Chosen

October 16, 2012 4 Comments
You don't need to be chosen. You don't need to be picked by a guy to have worth. A man is picking a flower out of field.

I see you everywhere I go. All around me, you're everywhere. So much insecurity. So many of you deferring to these guys. Hanging on to them so tightly, literally. Like you need them. You believe you do. It’s the flawed belief system that’s in so many of you. You're not flawed; it's just the system [...]

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Once Upon a Time There Was a Little Girl

August 14, 2012 12 Comments
Once upon a time there was a little girl who believed she could do anything (Photo of little girl jumping with joy)

Once upon a time you were a little girl who knew her worth couldn’t be measured; a little girl who believed in herself and her dreams, which were big dreams, and that little girl knew she could do anything and that her dreams would come true. Until they came along and told you that you [...]

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