5 Signs He Really Is That Into You

While those things are certainly wonderful and oh so romantic, they’re not the true tell-tale signs that he’s in it for the long haul. Lots of guys can be over the top romantic when they're on the hunt.

So you've gone out on several dates, he’s been very romantic, sending you flowers, taking you to wonderful restaurants, and generally sweeping you off of your feet. You’re starting to think you’d like to take the relationship to the next level. But how do you know he’s not just an experienced player that’s putting his time in [...]

5 Ways To Be More Confident On A Date

5 ways to be more confident on your date

We've all been there, those nervous hours (and for some of us that are more anxiety prone, days) before a date with a guy you either just met or recently started dating that you're just so, well, into. You want to make a good impression and you start obsessing about everything from your hair, to [...]

3 Ways to Know He's a Keeper

Three ways to know he's a keeper.

All too often we overlook the three most important essentials of a real relationship. Looking back, it seems so obvious to me.  Of all the qualities I was looking for in a guy, of all my “must haves” on my quest for finding Mr. Right, I didn’t pay nearly enough attention to the three things that [...]

The Case of the Disappearing Man

The case of the disappearing man

We've all been there – you've gone on a couple of dates, had a great time, then suddenly, as quickly as it started…silence. Nothing but crickets. So why did it happen? Why did he just vanish from your life? Well, the truth is, it's because he wasn’t the guy for you. You may have felt [...]

The REAL Reason He Hasn’t Called

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I remember it like it was just yesterday.  The conversation my single girlfriends and I would have over and over again.  Whenever one of us had just gone on a first or second date, or had been in a slow moving relationship with the typical non-committal guy we were in denial about.  The conversation always [...]

If I knew then what I know now … words of wisdom to my younger self: What every woman needs to know about the search for Mr. Right (Part 1).

I’ve been getting a lot of questions lately from women wondering about what they should be doing to try to find him.  The guy who’s Mr. Right for them.  And I’m hearing you all very clearly.  What you’re saying behind the words.  You want some reassurance.  You want to know it’ll happen to you.  You [...]

The "A" word - Alone

Haven’t you ever felt awfully alone when you’re actually in a relationship with the wrong guy? A beautiful woman sits on the ground feeling alone in her relationship.

Sometimes, if we look at the reasons we stay in a relationship that isn't working, we find that it’s all about the A word.  Alone.  If we’re really honest with ourselves, I think we’d find that much of the stuff we allow in our relationships is because we’re afraid of being alone.  Without a guy. I think [...]

The Gift of a Broken Heart

The gift of a broken heart

I was telling a friend about this blog today, and explaining why I’m so passionate about wanting to help spare my single girlfriends out there from so much of the heartbreak I went through, when I realized something.  About all that heartbreak.  It’s a gift.  Any time we experience a broken heart over someone who [...]

You're Ok, He's Ok – Just not for each other

I know.  It’s hard to hear it.  We want it to work so badly.  It’s got all the makings of a real relationship if he were ready to commit.  But that’s the thing.  He’s not and you are.  And that’s why it’s over before it even begins.  I know, you’re thinking if you just give [...]