He's Going to Fall For You

He's going to fall for you, and when he does, he'll be falling for the real you; your essence. A beautiful woman is being herself looking up and smiling.

Ladies, it's time to stop worrying about what you said or didn't say, what you did or didn't do, or any of those other regrets you have when you feel like things aren't going well. It doesn't matter. None of those things really matter. They are of no significance in the realm where the kind [...]

It's Not About Him, It's About You!

It's not about him, it's about you. A beautiful woman is lying on the grass.

We've all been there, asking ourselves and everyone who's still listening to us …Why is he doing this? Why is he behaving like that? Why is he treating me this way? What is he looking for? What does he want? But what would happen if we could change this around to be about you instead [...]

When You're Ready For a Change

When it's time to make a change, start with external changes and use those to drive the necessary internal changes.

When I first moved down to Southern California from Vancouver, Canada it was because I was desperately in need of a change. I was tired of being single. Almost all my friends were married, and the ones who were single were stuck in the same negative patterns, bringing themselves down and me down with them. [...]

5 Secrets to Staying Sane In a World of Couples

Beautiful single woman is at a wedding celebrating with her friends who are all in relationships. 5 secrets to staying sane in a world of couples.

Does it sometimes feel like everyone in the world is in a relationship except you? I've been there, and here are five secrets I learned along the way that will save your sanity! I remember that feeling that would come over me when, as a single girl, I would get an invitation to a party [...]

Once Upon a Time There Was a Little Girl

Once upon a time there was a little girl who believed she could do anything (Photo of little girl jumping with joy)

Once upon a time you were a little girl who knew her worth couldn’t be measured; a little girl who believed in herself and her dreams, which were big dreams, and that little girl knew she could do anything and that her dreams would come true. Until they came along and told you that you [...]

Filling the Void

Are you feeling empty inside?

Frequently, whether we're currently in a relationship or we're single, we find ourselves looking for something, longing for something, and we're not sure exactly what it is. We're feeling empty inside, like there's a hollow space within us that we are desperately looking to fill in any way that we can. So often what we’re [...]

Finding Your Best Self

Finding your true self finding your true love woman jumping

We hear it all the time: be your best self!  But what does that really mean?  How do we be our best selves?  We may spend a small fortune on a new wardrobe of all of the latest trendy styles, buy a membership to the best fitness club, or get a sporty new car.  But [...]

Stop Trying To Be Something You're Not!

Don't hide your true personality

Bending and twisting yourself like a pretzel to fit what you think the person you're attracted to wants might get him interested, but here's why he won't stick around for long. This is the eighth and final post in our series 8 Signs You Aren’t Ready for a Relationship. If you often find that you're trying [...]

Don't Spend All of Your Time Hunting

Are you on the hunt for love?

Are you spending more time pursuing love than pursuing your own interests?  This is the sixth post in our series 8 Signs You Aren't Ready for a Relationship. Being Alone I remember that feeling of subtle panic that would come over me as the weekend would approach.  I didn’t have any plans lined up, didn’t have [...]

Do You Need a Man in Your Life to Feel Happy?

Forming deep connections with other people is a very real human need.

Your anxiety may be causing you to waste something very precious. This is the second post in our series 8 Signs You Aren't Ready for a Relationship. I'm going to spend the next week or two delving into each of these more deeply, one by one, and discussing what you can do to make sure [...]