The One Thing You Need to Bring to a Relationship

Men want a woman who knows who she is and what she wants in life and is confident in herself and her abilities. They want a complete woman. A beautiful woman is being hugged from behind by her romantic partner.

I really do get it. “You complete me” is simply a tear-evoking, make-us-weak-at-the-knees statement we would all love to hear coming from our man. The very thought of him just needing us so much that he would be broken, a fraction of the man he is now if we weren’t in his life, just makes our [...]

I'm Confident and Adventurous – Why Can't I Find Love?

How does a woman in my position keep from feeling there will actually be no one out there for her? A beautiful confident woman leans against a tree in a park.

One of our confident, beautiful readers, Ashley, wrote in asking for some advice on what she can do to find love. Since this is a question so many of us can relate to, I wanted to share her question and my response. Hi Jane, Thank you for offering to answer questions! I am a confident woman [...]

It's Time To Celebrate YOU!

Loving yourself and recognizing all of the wonderful, valuable, and lovable qualities that make you the beautiful person that you are is the first step to having the kind of love in your life that you've been longing for. A beautiful woman is celebrating herself by giving herself a bouquet of flowers.

You're pretty great, no matter what you think about yourself. How do I know? Because everyone is pretty great. We all have our own unique qualities that make us special, interesting, valuable and lovable. It's time to start celebrating those unique qualities that make you you. It's in the noticing and celebrating of our own special [...]

Having the Confidence to Just Say "Next!"

She's confident, so sure of herself, that everyone around her knows she's not going to accept anything less than she deserves. So full of confidence. A table card with the word "Next" sits on a white table.

What do you do when you're simply not the type who can just say "next!" when he doesn't call or when he won't give you the commitment you want? I know, it's not you. But you so want it to be. You know exactly the type. She's got that mesmerizing confidence, so sure of herself, that everyone around [...]

How to Attract the Guy You Really Deserve and Avoid The Ones You Don't

Why would you be attracted to someone who doesn't treat you well if you were confident in who you are and what you have to offer someone? A happy couple is having fun in a winter scene.

You've heard it said time and time again. You deserve so much more than this! You've even said it yourself more times than you care to remember. But every time you say it, every time you decide that enough is enough and this time you are finally going to hold out for what you truly [...]

Be Confident: You Know Who You Really Are

That internal voice - it's always there, undermining your confidence, silently eroding your self-esteem, but you know who you really are. A beautiful young woman is thinking about who she really is, and her confidence level.

There's that little voice inside your head that seems to pop up whenever you're at your most vulnerable. Whenever you're already questioning yourself and what you're doing and whether or not you really do deserve the best that love and life have to offer. For many of us, it's subtle and not loud enough to [...]

The Best Way to Build Confidence

There was always someone I knew who had that confidence about them and their particular relationship, just confidently being in it. A beautiful confident woman is showing her confidence by dancing in a grass field in the rain.

If it seems to you like everyone else has it all together, knowing just what to do to have a healthy relationship and making it look so easy in the process, while you're struggling along, feeling like there's something wrong with you, well, you're not alone. I used to feel that way, too. There always [...]

Your Best Response When You're Not Getting the Commitment You Want

If you've let him know that you expect the same level of commitment from him that you've given him, and he can't give you the commitment that you're looking for, then there’s only one thing for you to do. A clock is showing that it's time to move on.

It all seemed so incredible. He seemed so amazing. He made you feel beautiful when you were together – and even when you thought you weren't. Your relationship had all the makings of the real thing. All the fireworks, all the excitement, all the magic. Until suddenly, you’re noticing some subtle changes. He’s not calling as [...]

5 Ways To Be More Confident On A Date

5 ways to be more confident on your date

We've all been there, those nervous hours (and for some of us that are more anxiety prone, days) before a date with a guy you either just met or recently started dating that you're just so, well, into. You want to make a good impression and you start obsessing about everything from your hair, to [...]