5 Warning Signs You're Dating A Womanizer

Here are a few red flags that would definitely indicate a potential for womanizer status. A beautiful woman is on a date with a guy that she is wondering is a womanizer.

Wondering if your Prince Charming is really just a smooth womanizer? Check out this article I wrote for YourTango for a few warning signs… You've just met a man who, at least on the surface, seems to be your dream guy. He's attractive, funny, charming, successful and his smile (let alone the thought of his [...]

It's Your Decision

As much as you want him to change, to commit to you, to do something different, the reality is that you are not going to change him and no amount of loving him is going to change him. A beautiful woman lies in bed wondering if her boyfriend will ever make a commitment to her.

What can you live with? Whatever he's doing or isn't doing; whatever you want him to do that he can't do. You're not going to change him. As much as you want him to change, to make a commitment to you, to do something different, the reality is that you are not going to change [...]

I Can't Make You Love Me

Of course you thought you could make someone love you. Haven't we all been there? You, too, believed, in spite of what everyone told you, that you could actually change his heart. A beautiful woman looks out at the snow knowing it's finally over.

You know exactly what I'm talking about here. Because you've been down this path far too many times before. Of course you thought you could make someone love you. Haven't we all been there? You, too, believed, in spite of what everyone told you, that you could actually change his heart. And no matter how [...]

Your Actions Say So Much More than Your Words

You deserve nothing less than someone who calls you often and with enough notice to get together. You deserve nothing less than someone who knows what he's got in you and knows what is required of him if he wants to be in a relationship with you. A beautiful confident woman looks into the camera.

You know this scenario all too well. He's not calling you as often as you'd like; he's waiting until the last minute to make plans with you; you're feeling taken for granted. You're not sure what to do to turn things around, but you don't want to lose him; you've never felt the way you [...]

7 Things I've Learned About Men Who Are Afraid Of Commitment

When will he commit? This is always the question you're really asking. How do you know how long to wait for commitment? And what if you've had enough and decide to move on right before he is ready to commit? Commitment road sign under a blue sky with clouds.

It's happened again. Just when you thought you were done with attracting yet another guy with commitment issues, you've found yourself yet again in a relationship with an incredible guy that has all the wonderful potential only you can see, if only he would commit! How does this happen? How do we keep repeating this pattern [...]

Should I Leave Him? 9 Questions to Ask Yourself

You've been living like this for far too long. You keep thinking things are going to get better, hanging on to those little things that just keep you hanging on. Until finally it becomes clear that things aren't getting better, he isn't coming around. A beautiful and thoughtful woman is questioning her relationship.

You've been living like this for far too long. You keep thinking things are going to get better, hanging on to those little things that just keep you hanging on. Until finally it becomes clear that things aren't getting better, he isn't coming around, you're still giving way more than you're getting out of this [...]

How We Get Hooked

Why do we suddenly find ourselves justifying why he’s treating us the way he does, why he has rules about how often he can spend time with us, why we’re suddenly on the begging end of the whole relationship? A beautiful woman is hooked on a guy that is not treating her well

What happens to us that we, perfectly intelligent, level headed women suddenly begin justifying to ourselves, beyond all sense of reason, why he’s treating us the way he does, why it's OK that he has rules about how often he can spend time with us, why it's understandable that he needs so much "guy time", [...]

The Case of the Disappearing Man

The case of the disappearing man

We've all been there – you've gone on a couple of dates, had a great time, then suddenly, as quickly as it started…silence. Nothing but crickets. So why did it happen? Why did he just vanish from your life? Well, the truth is, it's because he wasn’t the guy for you. You may have felt [...]

He Might Be Right In Front of You

He might be right in front of you.

Sometimes the perfect guy for you has been right there all along, you just didn't notice. Buried in between all the unhealthy relationships that never turned out the way I wanted them to; in between all those heartbreaking dramatic episodes with guys that could never give me what I was so looking for, there were [...]

Are You a Rescuer?

Remember, he's your boyfriend, not your patient.

You may be falling in love with the guy you want him to be instead of the guy he really is. This is the third post in our series 8 Signs You Aren’t Ready for a Relationship. I’m going to spend the next week or two delving into each of these more deeply, one by [...]