Bring Love Into Your Life With This One Simple Habit

February 19, 2013 12 Comments
Once you make a habit of noticing all of the little things there are to be grateful for your entire life will change for the better. A beautiful woman is lying in the grass looking at a dandelion thinking of everything she has to be grateful for.

I've been having a tough day. My son is three days into his second bout of flu this season, just a few days after his little sister finally got over … [Continue reading]

The Worst Thing You Can Do When He Won't Commit

February 16, 2013 11 Comments
You're the one who really has tried everything to get him to come around and fully commit. You're the one who's given him more than enough time to come around and finally make the commitment . A beautiful woman is upset that her boyfriend won't give her the commitment she wants.

You know exactly who you are. You're the one who really has tried everything to get him to come around and fully commit. You're the one who's given … [Continue reading]

A New Perspective on Valentine's Day

February 13, 2013 6 Comments
The reality is that many of those seemingly wonderful relationships that for appearances sake seem to hold everything we long for are not anything we would really want. A valentine's day heart shaped candle burns against a white background.

It’s the day I remember all too well. As the entourage of flower and hearts and candy deliveries made their way into the office, the most I could … [Continue reading]

It's Time to Raise the Bar!

February 11, 2013 18 Comments
We just keep lowering the bar on what we'll settle for, and in the process we teach him how little we will require from him if he'll only choose us. A beautiful woman is lifting a barbel on her shoulders.

Don't ever doubt that you teach him how to treat you. That each of us teaches each and every man out there how to treat us and every other woman who … [Continue reading]

Long Distance Relationship? 3 Questions to Ask Yourself

February 7, 2013 9 Comments
At some point, every long-distance relationship needs to have two people be together to see if this is really going to be the relationship it promises to be. A beautiful woman is walking through the airport looking at her phone dialing her long distance relationship boyfriend hoping for commitment.

So many of you have come to me with questions about long-distance relationships and how to make the best of them and what to do when you’re in them, … [Continue reading]

Is Your Past Getting in the Way of Your Future?

February 3, 2013 8 Comments
We think we need to be perfect, or at least somewhere close. We have so little grace for ourselves, for what we’ve been through, where we’ve come from. A beautiful woman is looking out from behind a chain link fence, symbolic of her own beliefs that are keeping her from having the relationship she wants.

I received an email the other day that really got to me. It was from a reader who felt that her past behavior with men had precluded her from having a … [Continue reading]

How to Attract the Guy You Really Deserve and Avoid The Ones You Don't

January 30, 2013 13 Comments
Why would you be attracted to someone who doesn't treat you well if you were confident in who you are and what you have to offer someone? A happy couple is having fun in a winter scene.

You've heard it said time and time again. You deserve so much more than this! You've even said it yourself more times than you care to … [Continue reading]

Be Confident: You Know Who You Really Are

January 26, 2013 4 Comments
That internal voice - it's always there, undermining your confidence, silently eroding your self-esteem, but you know who you really are. A beautiful young woman is thinking about who she really is, and her confidence level.

There's that little voice inside your head that seems to pop up whenever you're at your most vulnerable. Whenever you're already questioning yourself … [Continue reading]

It's Time to Let Go of the Fairytale

January 23, 2013 8 Comments
She always won her man, and he always pursued her regardless of what obstacles came up, and they always eventually married and lived happily ever after. A beautiful woman dressed as a princess is running toward the fairytale castle.

You remember the story well. Yet another beautiful commoner captured the heart of the prince, and the two rode off into the sunset to live happily … [Continue reading]

It's Your Decision

January 18, 2013 12 Comments
As much as you want him to change, to commit to you, to do something different, the reality is that you are not going to change him and no amount of loving him is going to change him. A beautiful woman lies in bed wondering if her boyfriend will ever make a commitment to her.

What can you live with? Whatever he's doing or isn't doing; whatever you want him to do that he can't do. You're not going to change him. As much as … [Continue reading]

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