He Was Never Really There

We forget just how miserable we were far too much of the time. We forget how many of our own needs weren't being met. We forget all the waiting. We forget all the uncertainty. We forget all the times we felt like anything would have been better than what we were living. A beautiful woman is sad thinking about her recently ended relationship.

It's always hard to let go of a dream. The dream of all the potential the relationship showed, the dream of all that could have been. We tend to have … [Continue reading]

The Dance of Letting Go

We all want to know the secret to just letting go and not going back. But the reality is that there is no secret. A beautiful woman sits on the floor leaning on the couch with her boyfriend several feet away, in the middle of letting go.

If you've found yourself struggling to let go of someone you know isn't right for you, who you know isn't on the same page as you, but it’s … [Continue reading]

What to Do When He Suddenly Disappeared

You're in a relationship with the perfect guy, the one you've been waiting your whole life for, when suddenly he disappears from your life never to be heard from again. A woman is looking at her iphone wondering why he disappeared.

Almost all of us have been there before at least once in our lives.  The perfect guy, the one you've been waiting your whole life for, suddenly … [Continue reading]

5 Warning Signs You're Dating A Womanizer

Here are a few red flags that would definitely indicate a potential for womanizer status. A beautiful woman is on a date with a guy that she is wondering is a womanizer.

Wondering if your Prince Charming is really just a smooth womanizer? Check out this article I wrote for YourTango for a few warning signs… You've … [Continue reading]

I'm Confident and Adventurous – Why Can't I Find Love?

How does a woman in my position keep from feeling there will actually be no one out there for her? A beautiful confident woman leans against a tree in a park.

One of our confident, beautiful readers, Ashley, wrote in asking for some advice on what she can do to find love. Since this is a question so many of … [Continue reading]

Why a Friends with Benefits Relationship Never Works

We forget that we can't separate our bodies from our hearts and souls like we believe we can. A beautiful woman is drinking beer with a guy in a friends with benefits relationship.

He's everything you've been looking for in a man except for one important thing; he's not looking for a commitment. In fact, he's upfront and honest … [Continue reading]

Is Your Relationship Moving Too Fast?

Why did he pursue me like that if he didn’t really want to be with me? A man is romancing his woman with lavish gifts and flowers.

One of our readers wrote to me last week saying "I have a friend who recently met a man who is going absolutely overboard with professing his love … [Continue reading]

How I Knew My Husband Was Marriage Material

It turns out all of these superficial things don't matter one bit as far as love is concerned. A bride and groom walk hand-in-hand after their wedding.

Here's an article I wrote for YourTango.com this week: In the early years of my dating life, I thought I knew exactly what I wanted, and I was … [Continue reading]

The Reason Your Type Is Not Really Your Type

It starts off amazing, like nothing you've ever experienced before. He says all the things you've been waiting to hear, he does everything that you've been dreaming of. A beautiful woman is wondering sitting in a room looking sad with man in the background.

If you are anything like I was back when I was single, you know exactly what your type is. You can spot him as soon as he walks in the room. He's got … [Continue reading]

It's Time To Celebrate YOU!

Loving yourself and recognizing all of the wonderful, valuable, and lovable qualities that make you the beautiful person that you are is the first step to having the kind of love in your life that you've been longing for. A beautiful woman is celebrating herself by giving herself a bouquet of flowers.

You're pretty great, no matter what you think about yourself. How do I know? Because everyone is pretty great. We all have our own unique qualities … [Continue reading]