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Comment on Make Him Prove That He's Worthy Of You by Jane

Jane — Mon, 20 May 2013 13:33:52 +0000

I love that you shared this, Rebecca - and your description of what makes him different is absolutely beautiful!! So happy for you, Rebecca - and I have no doubt he is a real cutie pie!

Comment on Why You Keep Attracting The Wrong Guys by Jane

Jane — Mon, 20 May 2013 13:30:55 +0000

I've sent you the link, Aileen

Comment on Make Him Prove That He's Worthy Of You by ann

ann — Mon, 20 May 2013 03:30:00 +0000

Wonderful Rebecca
I am so happy for you. And stories like yours are ample demonstration of the the truth that we can start again at any age. In fact having been through the grind and being single again is a blessing in that we know now what we dont want so we are more aware of what we DO want and also in a position to get it. So cheers to all the lovely ladies on this site.

Comment on Why You Keep Attracting The Wrong Guys by Aileen Vitug

Aileen Vitug — Mon, 20 May 2013 02:57:10 +0000

Hi Jane,

Can I have a copy of the book too...Thanks,

Comment on Make Him Prove That He's Worthy Of You by Rebecca

Rebecca — Sun, 19 May 2013 22:56:03 +0000

I had written when I first started seeing this wonderful man I now call my boyfriend. I had been through the online dating regime trying to sort through the losers and scammers when I finally met HIM. We have been communicating X 4 months now and have had two actual dates. I know he is "THE ONE" and the main reason is that I can totally be myself around him. Wow, what a refreshing change! Not to mention that he is so kind, considerate, honest, open, and funny. How did I get so lucky? I think my deceased husband & God played a hand in helping me out. Others may not think he good looking but damn he is a real cutie pie in my eyes. BTW I am 58 yrs. old.

Comment on Make Him Prove That He's Worthy Of You by Jane

Jane — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:34:41 +0000

So true, Jennifer - it is never too late too begin again, no matter where you've been, what you've gone through, or how hard it seems to start over. You will get there!

Comment on Make Him Prove That He's Worthy Of You by Jane

Jane — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:33:16 +0000

So very true, Raven - that it's about finding someone who accepts and loves you for who you truly are! It's never about second-guessing ourselves, wondering what we did wrong - although that is where far too many of us seem to go first when we haven't heard from him. Thanks for sharing your experience and the beautiful way you summarized this.

Comment on Make Him Prove That He's Worthy Of You by Jane

Jane — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:09:37 +0000

What you have written here is so beautiful, Ann; it is so real and so full of the reality of what you've been though, how you've come through it and how you have learned to be - and live! - for yourself first, on a daily basis. I know it's not easy, and I'm sure full of bright, clear days, and days that are not as clear. Thank you for sharing.

Comment on Make Him Prove That He's Worthy Of You by Jane

Jane — Sun, 19 May 2013 17:05:06 +0000

Your life is never done, my beautiful friend; it is never too late to begin again right where you are. We all learn these hard lessons about who we allow into our lives and how long we let them remain there at different places in our lives, Joan, but the only thing that really matters is that we do! Be so proud of yourself for finally being able to choose you over him and see the reality of what was with your eyes wide open! That took such strength and courage - some women never get there - you did! So from here, begin right where you are. The past is the past. Learn what you need to learn from it, but then come join yourself in the adventure of the here and now. The present moment. Who are you? What do you like to do? What have you always wanted to try? What are you passionate about? What does that little girl inside you who knows no limits want to be when she grows up? Keep this simple, start with the little things that bring joy and beauty into your life and from there, see what comes. Don't think of this as your life being over, think of this as a precious gift of beginning anew! I know the fear and anxiety that comes up all too often will try to tell you otherwise - know that that's natural and you're so not alone in feeling like this. Surround yourself with positive, passionate like-minded people and keep the negative ones out. Read books and listen to talks from people who've been there and have found the strength to begin again, too. Susan Jeffers, Byron Katie, Sarah Ban Breathnach are just three authors that come to mind that have written beautiful, inspiring works that you will identify with. And there are so many more. Find what inspires you and be inspired by it. Find what motivates you and do it. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise! Discover what you are passionate about e. and see how you might even inspire others because of it! Your main goal here is to not give into the fear that can keep you down - and I know that's so much easier said than done - but choose to see the true light of opportunity, the possibilities of dreams that can still come true, and the promise of a new life - your life - that's waiting for you, Joan. Start where you are today, think baby steps, and soon enough, you will look back on this and discover what we all eventually come to see - that there is a reason for everything we go through even if we can't see it at the time. Much love to you, my beautiful friend. It will get better, one day at a time.

Comment on Make Him Prove That He's Worthy Of You by Raven Warren

Raven Warren — Sun, 19 May 2013 10:01:04 +0000

I know I have been in situation constantly checking my phone to see if he called or not, so i completely understand.I remember a time when I would constantly, say to myself what did I do wrong? I think it wasn't until I understood that I loved myself way to much to let him take advantage. I remember my friends saying that if he loves you than he will work with you not against you. That when I learn that I have to be the woman I want to be and if he doesn't accept me for who I am, than It not going to work because you should never have to sacrifice yourself for someone else.