How to Attract the Guy You Really Deserve and Avoid The Ones You Don't

Why would you be attracted to someone who doesn't treat you well if you were confident in who you are and what you have to offer someone? A happy couple is having fun in a winter scene.

You've heard it said time and time again. You deserve so much more than this! You've even said it yourself more times than you care to remember. But every time you say it, every time you decide that enough is enough and this time you are finally going to hold out for what you truly [...]

Be Confident: You Know Who You Really Are

That internal voice - it's always there, undermining your confidence, silently eroding your self-esteem, but you know who you really are. A beautiful young woman is thinking about who she really is, and her confidence level.

There's that little voice inside your head that seems to pop up whenever you're at your most vulnerable. Whenever you're already questioning yourself and what you're doing and whether or not you really do deserve the best that love and life have to offer. For many of us, it's subtle and not loud enough to [...]

It's Time to Let Go of the Fairytale

She always won her man, and he always pursued her regardless of what obstacles came up, and they always eventually married and lived happily ever after. A beautiful woman dressed as a princess is running toward the fairytale castle.

You remember the story well. Yet another beautiful commoner captured the heart of the prince, and the two rode off into the sunset to live happily ever after. It didn't matter how many times you heard that story, how many different versions of it you read; the outcome was always the same. She always won [...]

The Best Way to Build Confidence

There was always someone I knew who had that confidence about them and their particular relationship, just confidently being in it. A beautiful confident woman is showing her confidence by dancing in a grass field in the rain.

If it seems to you like everyone else has it all together, knowing just what to do to have a healthy relationship and making it look so easy in the process, while you're struggling along, feeling like there's something wrong with you, well, you're not alone. I used to feel that way, too. There always [...]

Yes, You Can

You can do this. You really can. This standing up for yourself, this setting boundaries and standing firm for what you know you deserve and refusing to settle for anything less A beautiful woman is jumping in a green grassy field.

You can do this. You really can. This standing up for yourself, this setting boundaries and standing firm for what you know you deserve and refusing to settle for anything less even though you're lonely, even though you miss him, even though you're so used to convincing yourself it's ok that you actually believe it [...]

The Most Special Gift of All

We can't control who loves us, and all too often, we find ourselves with a deep longing to be loved by someone who isn't capable of giving us the love we are looking for from them. A beautiful woman opens a magical gift box.

I could go on and on. And sometimes I do. Because this one is just that important. It's not about the gifts we give everyone else. It's not about the time we spend looking for that perfect gift for someone else. It's not about anything tangible. It's about you and what you deserve more than [...]

How To Know You're Getting Closer To A Real Relationship

You start to learn that it really does matter that you know yourself well enough to know who it is you're really looking for. Your list changes to reflect the you you're discovering and learning to embrace in love. A man and woman are holding hands near the ocean.

Don't doubt yourself on this journey. It doesn't matter where you've come from or what you've been through. It doesn't matter how many times you feel you've repeated the same mistakes or how many times you've attracted the same type of guy. None of that matters. What matters is how each experience brings you closer [...]

It's A Journey

The reality is it's not about an overnight solution, some magic formula that makes it happen instantly. t's about a journey. A path winds through a park filled with autumn foliage.

It's been a little over a year since I created this website and began blogging here. Some of you have been on here since the beginning; some of you have just recently found me. Many of you are wondering why it hasn't happened for you yet, and how long it will take. The reality is [...]

Are You Happy?

Are you happy? If your answer is anything but a resounding yes, you need to reconsider your relationship. A beautiful woman is smiling while looking at her computer.

If your relationship is a real relationship, then the answer will be yes. If you’re single, then there’s good news – you only have yourself to consider when answering this question. It’s not really about whether or not you’re happy being single, but are you happy in general? Of course we all want love in [...]

The Missing Piece

This very important piece is like the last piece needed to complete the puzzle. A woman is holding the last piece of the puzzle.

No matter how many times you've read or been told it's ultimately about loving yourself, about being confident, about remembering all that you are and all that you have to offer, there is still that part of you that just doesn't know what to do with that. You read it, you get it, but how [...]