The Only New Year’s Resolution You Need to Make

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I started out writing a list of New Year's Resolutions to recommend for this post – a collection of a few that I had made myself over the years.  As I reviewed the list I started crossing some off, and then I started combining the similar ones.  I soon realized it really all came down [...]

14 Warning Signs That He’s Not That in to You

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When I look back at all the relationships that didn’t work out (that I so wanted to at the time), I realize that in every case, there were early warning signs that my guy gave me that could have given me some idea of the heartbreak I was going to experience if I had only [...]

My Christmas Wish for You

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I have a confession to make.  I’m the one who starts crying (OK, I have to admit sometimes I’m actually bawling) at some of the Christmas songs playing this time of year.  Maybe it’s because they bring back such memories of more than just time and places and experiences, but of actual emotions, and the [...]

The ONE THING You Need to Do to Find Mr. Right

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I have a few single girlfriends who are now in their late thirties and early forties that are always asking why they haven’t been able to find their Mr. Right.  So I looked back at my own life to try to understand why it took me until I was over thirty to find him myself, [...]

The Top 6 Things You Can Do to Survive the Holidays When You’re Single

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I remember how excited I would be if I met someone who showed some real relationship potential in the months or even weeks leading up to the holiday season.  Finally!  This Christmas I might actually be a part of a relationship - a couple!  I might actually have someone to show up with me for [...]

The REAL Reason He Hasn’t Called

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I remember it like it was just yesterday.  The conversation my single girlfriends and I would have over and over again.  Whenever one of us had just gone on a first or second date, or had been in a slow moving relationship with the typical non-committal guy we were in denial about.  The conversation always [...]

How NOT to Meet Mr. Right (Part 2 – Lessons Learned)

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Remember that relationship, or whatever it was, I was just telling you about?  Well, rather than looking at experiences like that as yet another failed attempt at love (and yes, that was only one in a long series of relationships that weren't love), here’s how I've learned to look at them: as learning experiences – on the road to [...]

How NOT to Meet Mr. Right. (Part 1)

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This is the story of Mike, the fire fighter.  And me.  And our relationship.  Now we all know there’s just something about a firefighter, right?  The big strong hero, who lives to save people, and is coming to save us too.  They’re special.  And if they like us, then we’re really special.  We’ve really been [...]

Radiant, Confident, Beautiful YOU! Part 2

I’m guessing you might be wondering just how we get to that place where you actually feel radiant, confident and beautiful.  It begins by asking yourself some basic questions that you may not have thought about before.  Like what do you like to do?  I mean, what do you really like to do.  Not what [...]

Radiant, Confident, Beautiful YOU! Part 1

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I’ve got some breaking news for you; you don’t need a guy to live your life.  You don’t need a guy to have a world to fit into.  You don’t need a guy to feel like you can start living. It’s what you choose to make of it.  You can keep waiting, hoping for the [...]