Part III: If I knew then what I know now...

...I wouldn’t be so scared that I had to be doing something to meet him right now or else someone else was going to find him first. I would know that scarcity is a lie that we’re brought up with, but it’s not true.  There’s always enough of everything if we believe it – even [...]

Part II: If I knew then what I know now...

...I wouldn’t think that finding him (and keeping him) was about using some magic formula, or playing games or uncovering some secret. I would know that it’s about being real, honest, and authentic; without the games, the acting, the manipulating and the pretending.  I've officially read enough books and articles about the search for Mr. Right [...]

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher: What Did Demi Really Lose?

I was thinking about an article I read the other day about the latest celebrity break-up that’s all over the web.   As I was reading about how Demi and others before her have ended their relationships with cheating men, I realized something important that I wanted to share with you.  Because it’s the perfect example [...]

If I knew then what I know now … words of wisdom to my younger self: What every woman needs to know about the search for Mr. Right (Part 1).

I’ve been getting a lot of questions lately from women wondering about what they should be doing to try to find him.  The guy who’s Mr. Right for them.  And I’m hearing you all very clearly.  What you’re saying behind the words.  You want some reassurance.  You want to know it’ll happen to you.  You [...]

One Big Happy Family – But Where’s My Boyfriend?

Spending time with his family is fine - unless it's on a Saturday night when he's out with his buddies.

So there I was, it was a Saturday night, and I was off to the mall, again, with my guy’s mom.  Yep, you read that right.  Not him; not my girlfriends.  His mom.  See here’s the thing; if I couldn’t be with him on Saturday nights, (you see, that was the well-rested, high-energy day he [...]

The "A" word - Alone

Haven’t you ever felt awfully alone when you’re actually in a relationship with the wrong guy? A beautiful woman sits on the ground feeling alone in her relationship.

Sometimes, if we look at the reasons we stay in a relationship that isn't working, we find that it’s all about the A word.  Alone.  If we’re really honest with ourselves, I think we’d find that much of the stuff we allow in our relationships is because we’re afraid of being alone.  Without a guy. I think [...]