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The Gift of a Broken Heart

October 31, 2011 8 Comments
The gift of a broken heart

I was telling a friend about this blog today, and explaining why I’m so passionate about wanting to help spare my single girlfriends out there from so much of the heartbreak I went through, when I realized something.  About all that heartbreak.  It’s a gift.  Any time we experience a broken heart over someone who [...]

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Shallow

October 24, 2011 4 Comments
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Cars.  El Caminos.  Corvettes.  I have a confession to make.  I was really really shallow when it came to what kind of car a guy drove.  Like it was a deal breaker.  Crazy, I know, but it was.  For some reason, it just really mattered.  Like the guy who drove the El Camino. You know, [...]

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Why We Choose Who We Do

October 18, 2011 Leave a Comment
Why we choose who we do. Have you ever noticed that you attract and are attracted to the level of your own self-esteem? A woman's hands are holding a beautiful heart.

Have you ever noticed that you attract and are attracted to the level of your own self-esteem?  Like if you’re feeling great about yourself, full of confidence that you really are all that, you’re going to find yourself attracted to that guy in front of you at the grocery checkout line.   But if you’re [...]

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Believe

October 14, 2011 Leave a Comment
Loving couple sitting and hugging in the park.

I know what you’re thinking.  It sounds like a cliché.  Just believe!  It’ll happen.  Just believe it and it’ll come true.  And while there are a lot of people out there who claim the power of believing in something, that it really works, I’m going to go a step further here and talk about the [...]

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The Things We Do For Love

October 9, 2011 Leave a Comment
Why do we pretend to be what we aren't in the name of love

Why we do them, no one knows.  But if we think it’s love, we’ll try it. Because they’re into skiing and we want to do things with them and we just know it’ll be easy to pick it up. No, no, no. Do not do this. I learned this one the hard way. And ended [...]

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Letting Go

October 8, 2011 2 Comments

It’s hard to let go of a dream.  Even harder to let go when we still believe the dream might still come true.  Someday.  So we hang on.  A little longer.  Or a lot longer.  Because it was everything in the beginning.  It seemed like the beginning of that perfect relationship.  The real thing.  He [...]

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You're Ok, He's Ok – Just not for each other

October 4, 2011 Leave a Comment

I know.  It’s hard to hear it.  We want it to work so badly.  It’s got all the makings of a real relationship if he were ready to commit.  But that’s the thing.  He’s not and you are.  And that’s why it’s over before it even begins.  I know, you’re thinking if you just give [...]

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